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Becoming active in a new social media community is not unlike real world relationships. They always start off strong, filled with the idealization of new experience. Over time you start seeing flaws, imperfections and disturbing behaviors. You start drifting away and looking for a more fulfilling adventure. I have not been enjoying FriendFeed recently and have decided to take an iBreak. I hope we can still be friends though, I don't want us to feel uncomfortable if we see each other around the net.

It's me, not you FriendFeed. I'm a prude, careful of what I put before my eyes. I deplore crass language and am grieved by divisive rhetoric. I seek intelligent dialog and engagement. In the past few weeks I've noticed a shift in the tone of conversation at FriendFeed. I know you're impressed with the some of the "leaders" but a few have sunk to rather immature behaviors. I'm not a fan of mocking those we disagree with. There was a time when we tried to help each other find the good in individuals. I expect us to elevate the conversation, bring forth change and celebrate solutions. I have no problem with sharing the silly things that make us smile. I'm just uncomfortable the crude items I've been seeing. It's like porn- no one can define it, you just know when you see it.

We've had some good times, laughed together and danced with the possibility of a different type of communal gathering. A place where we didn't need to celebrate piffle, spoke to each other with respect and were mindful of what we put in the public stream of information. FriendFeed was like a get together with acquaintances having some rich conversations over a glass of wine or two. Lately it's like someone started doing shots of Jack, took off their clothes and started spewing angry vile.

I know you have it in you to be that place that inspires. I understand things change with growth, but I felt we needed to get this out in the open so we can work things out. I don't want this to devolve into a YouTube comment thread. You have a beautiful mind, I respect that most about you FriendFeed.

msw

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